Virgin No Longer Afraid For Ever Use Vibrator

I want to ask, I was actually embarrassed ungkapin it all. I am 22 years old. When in 2007, when I graduated from high school met someone who introduced me to sex, before I blind to the knowledge of sex.

I've never had sex with men. Only, as he entered college semester, my friend gave me the tools and the blue vibrator movies.

First time I saw it, I was really shocked and I tried to use the vibrator in my vagina. I insert the vibrator into the vagina. It is difficult then suddenly the blood flow in the device vibrator. I panicked, I did not know what it means blood outflow. I learned my lesson and will not do it again.

Then I search on the internet, it may be that virgin blood. What I was a virgin? And I was worried when I got married the first time you have sex with her husband not to bleed.

While my current candidate told me, it is questionable if the first night did not bleed. While it is not all going to bleed at first night.

Then I read an article about the events that I experienced, that only tighten the vagina, maybe later when the first night I was able to bleed.

Please help me solve this worries doctors. How can I be the first to bleed at night and also how do I tighten the vagina?

Answer

Local culture in this country is still nuanced 'no gender'. Thus, virginity (virginity) so benchmarks wedding night. Virginity is not used as a measure.

You are right, it is not always on the first night bride vaginal spotting issued. This happens when the hymen (Hymen) elastic. Alternatively, the maximum foreplay makes lubrication (vaginal) vagina vagina and the cracking occurred very great, which makes penetration of the penis can not tear the hymen.

You should not worry, the blood is uncertain due rending hymen when you use the vibrator first. It could be due to friction vibrator blood in the vaginal wall.

To ensure the integrity of the hymen, vaginal examination can be done in obstetric clinics.

Vaginal lubrication will be meeting and when you are sexually stimulated. In general, the first night couples lack sexual knowledge, direct intercourse, penetration of the penis in the vagina when vaginal lubrication, and yet still meeting, not broke.

From the illustration, you can pick the technique is expected to make vaginal lubrication, relatively tight, not broke. However, the consequences are very painful when intercourse, due to irritation of the penis in the vaginal wall. Typically, these irritants cause spotting.