5 Factors that Make Men Lazy Sex | Couples

Still think the spirit of the man who has always been more about the affair than women to have sex? Not really. There are times when he refused an invitation for sex partner. The causes can be diverse and not always because of the physical appearance of the less attractive wives, or couples who are not performing optimally. According to the sex counselor Ian Kerner, PhD, there are five factors that make a lazy man having sex as quoted from Good In Bed.

1. Health Problems
Physically, many possible causes him to lose sexual desire. Health problems that can lower sex drive in men include heart disorders, consumption of anti-depressant pills, alcoholic beverages to a low testosterone level. If the biological factors that become obstacles, there is nothing to do but go to the doctor specialists.

2. Confidence Disorders
But in this context, confidence is not necessarily related to physical appearance. There are things beyond that that can make a man lose sexual arousal, such as job loss, financial worries or depression due to problems in the workplace. Financial problems made them feel whole as a man, even if her partner is convinced that money is not everything in a relationship household.

3. Troubled Relationships
Troubled relationship with his wife, also became one of the most common causes of loss of sexual desire in men. Negative feelings such as anger, hatred, disappointment and dissatisfaction other relationship could disrupt the smooth sex married couples. When he got bored with the affair, they also tend to be tired for sex.

4. Porn Movies
In the book 'He's Just Not Up For It Anymore', Bob Berkowitz and his wife, Susan Yager-Berkowitz reveals the reasons he refused to be invited to have sex. What is written both of them are based on a survey of four thousand couples. From the survey, 25 percent of men known to refuse sex because rather watch porn. This led to her sex life in real life is replaced by fantasies in cyberspace.

5. Routines
Men can feel excited anymore due to undergo routine that it is only during lovemaking. To fix this, try to spend some time at least once a week to go alone. Spend time alone with your partner in the room, without a television and children. Discuss what the fantasy respectively. Sharing the things that has not been disclosed can evoke passion again.