Overweight or obesity can be a problem in sex. For women, in particular, their confidence eroded and this can slightly affect the difficulty in reaching orgasm during sex.
Obesity is now an issue for pretty much anyone. Based on data from health agencies in the U.S., 34% of the adult population in the land of Uncle Sam obese.
Sex expert and bestselling author of "She Comes First ', Ian Kerner said there are clients who come to him for a consultation because the case is overweight. In consultation, the men said sex life is no longer fun after her partner gain weight. That causes it to happen, according to the man, because his partner became confident again. After several consultations the man also admitted that she felt she was no longer as attractive as before.
A study published in the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy 'also found that obesity does have an impact on your sex life. In research revealed that respondents were men and women who are obese are claimed to be less satisfied with the intercourse is done as a couple.
Another study conducted at Duke University revealed 30% of obese people choose to request expert assistance to control their weight gain. This was done after they are obese affects sexual performance, desire or libido.
For obese, self distrust not be the only issue when it comes to sex. Conditions such as high cholesterol, high blood pressure and diabetes can also aggravate intimacy with a partner. When these problems occur will affect blood flow to the genital area so that the man can affect erectile dysfunction and decreased arousal in women. Obesity can also make simple knee pain so do not enjoy when trying certain sexual positions.
It's just according to Ian, not all of them are obese have problems with your sex life. The study, published in Obstetrics & Gynecology in 2008 found that fact. In a study involving 7,000 women were found, they were overweight justu claimed more than women enjoy sex slim.
Other studies revealed a small risk of overweight men experiencing premature ejaculation. They also tend to last longer during sex than men are more slender. This can happen because the fat man had a female hormone estradiol levels higher, so the climax may be delayed.
Whatever the circumstances, Ian insists, whether you are overweight or not, you can still enjoy sex just so you know the drill. If you are obese and it is hard to enjoy lovemaking with a partner, it's time to make changes. Not necessarily right diet, although the move is beneficial to stimulate sex hormones and improve health.
In order to be able to enjoy sex when overweight, here are some suggestions Ian:
1. Try a new position. Sex positions to try is spooning, which was slightly modified missionary is to put a pillow under her hips.
2. Discover other forms of intimacy. Sex is not just penetration. Exploration of other forms of intimacy such as oral sex, manual stimulation, sex toys or just kissing and hugging.
3. Think outside the box. When a confidence problem, try to have sex with a dim light conditions. Do not forget the power of fantasy that can still be achieved orgasm.
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